He is not interested in you any more…Move on!

There are pains in a woman’s heart that memory cannot erase for a long, long time and that is the pain of losing a man she truly loves. So many women choose to hold on to a love that is already lost and that brings more pain. Hopefully, this article will shed some light on whether that man is interested in you or it’s time to move on.
If he's dating someone else, you've got to start moving on.

Please don't be naive. Wake up! Realize what's going on here. He doesn't share your feelings of wanting to back together. This is hard for a woman when you still have feelings for him.... but you're setting yourself up for ALL KINDS of pain and disappointment. Never allow men who have "someone else" in their life to keep sharing and expressing their feelings for you.



If a man doesn't know what he wants, he generally doesn't want what he's got.

This may sound harsh, but it's the truth of the situation. And even when it isn't completely true, it's a good rule to go by. If you challenge this idea, you need to recognize that he's not in the right place in his life to share what you want with him. Right now it sounds like your waiting for him to make up his mind what he wants is the right choice. But it’s not, he’ll just tag you along until someone better comes along and you will have no one to blame but you.

A good man who is the right person and wants to be with you will find his own way to his "Emotional Truth."

If his truth is that he wants to be with you, or not be with you, you have to respect that. But I see women do it all the time. The guy will be sending all kinds of subtle (or even direct) signs that he's not "available" or interested in something "serious", but the woman ignores them and just pays attention to the fact that he likes being with her when they're together. In other words, she substitutes the physical

connection, or even the occasional emotional connection, for the real relationship she wants

to be in.

Put more value on his actions, not his words

Forget what he says. Take some time to think about the past with the man, how he treats you, and then compare that to what will honestly make YOU happy, and what kind of relationship you want in your future. If you're honest about it with yourself, I don't think he'll fit well into that based on his actions and behavior.



A strong connection does NOT necessarily equal any interest in a relationship.

That's why it's CRITICAL that women learn to read the signals that a man sends about where he's at. Because he's surely not going to just lay it all out there for you. I promise. If he does, write me an email, tell me all about it, and give me his mailing address so I can send him his prize. I know you are wondering, why would a man have a great woman and a great connection with her that felt amazing when they were together, and not want a relationship? Just because he has feelings for you doesn’t mean that he wants to be in a relationship with you and be faithful.

You can't convince a man to want to be with you.

If a man ever tells you he does not know what he wants. Run my friend, and don’t look back. This is CLASSIC man-speak for "I'm not emotionally available and I'm not ready for a

real relationship”. When he can't get in touch with his feelings and isn't open to exploring them, it's a text-book

case of unavailability. Your convincing him and your wanting

him back, is making you come off in all kinds of ways that men

just don't respond well to. NO AMOUNT of talking, experience or reasoning with him can get him to feel the way you want him

to feel

Don’t try stay in touch with him and keep the connection alive.

I know it seems like the best idea to keep trying to stay in touch with him and keep the connection alive. But the truth is that you're just keeping this same old situation alive by pumping your time and attention into it. If instead, you step back and stop chasing him or trying to convince him you're the right woman, you’ll have an opportunity to do something that can honestly be ATTRACTIVE to him

Something funny happens when a man gets the space he asked for

If you do it in the right way, he's forced to deal with himself and his own feelings to figure out that all the things he is worried about, afraid of, fearful of "committing to", etc. And being by himself, he'll see that these things are really just in his own mind - and not bad things about YOU.





Move on

Get back to the things that you enjoy, the places you like to go and avoid places or things you used to do or see with that man. Spend some time with your friends and give yourself the space you deserve. The less you talk about what you are to him the better off you'll be.

And I think you'll be amazed at the results.